Ok here is my situation, my first love was in high school. We were together from the 9th and dated on and off through the 12th grade, even going to the prom together. After graduating from high school, I went to college in another state and he went the military traveling around the world. We lost contact with each. This was 22 years ago. For years I have often wondered where he was and even tried using the internet to find him, but with no luck. Then 2 weeks ago, the most incredible thing happened. I had a strong urge to try finding him again, we literally joined classmates.com at the same thing and found one another. He even lives 2 hours away from me in the same state. We have talked constantly on the phone and still have strong feeling for one another and we have even met for lunch recently. I am even more convinced this is the man I was meant to be with. Now here is the dilemma. He is married with children and so am I. We both are in unhappy relationships, even before we found each other again. I do believe in fate and think that this was meant to be. Help?
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