Im in lust and about to do something stupid Post a Reply | Views: 737 | Started By: flossie | Replies: 2 iv been seeing a guy for a few weeks and iv tried really hard not to get attached. We tried to have sex other day but it just well.............................didn't happen! then as he's mates with my house mate he told him that he didnt know where he stood with me and didnt feel like he wanted to pull anyone else. so i thought id ask where i stood. big mistake (i think) as he really likes me but doesnt want anything serious as ther isnt much of 2nd yr at uni left till summer. fair enough but he doesnt know what he means by 'not serious' and wants to carry on as we were. and as we are about to try again i cant help but think he wants to someone to sleep with. so other than not sleeping with him i cant think of what to do to help me, i know if i do il get attached and then hurt. as far as hes concerned nothing is wrong and we are going to carry on as we were. please help im driving my self insane

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If you want to see where you stand with him, in my opinion, keep standing...don't sleep with him. Refrain from any/all forms of sexual behavior, except kissing/necking. IF he cares for you as a person, he'll understand your not wanting to do the "deed"; if he's just in it for sex, he'll leave. It might hurt to find out that he just wants to separate you from your panties, but it's best to find out now than at some point in the future. Hey, there are guys out there that like girls for the company and friendship...and love...not plain sex. Good luck to you!!!!! Responded: Catmann   listen if he only wants to have sex with you then you should think about it ...because for one you dont know who else hes sleeping with and their to many of stds and hiv's going around and beside if a man just want my body then he really dont want me and so honey what im tring to say is that you can do bad by yourself, find somebody who wants the whole you and not the half... Responded: berlon