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Let her go. If your love is true, then she'll come back to you, somehow. I know this isn't great advice, but the thing is...does she know that you like/love her ? I hesitated with the rest of my advice in fear it would bring you more pain.
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| Responded: SmartOne |
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I don't mean to bring you any pain what so ever so please don't take any of this the wrong way.As glitch said let her go now. She needs to do what she wants because if you try to keep her with you and she doesn't want that then you might regret that later. Does she know how much you liked or loved her? How old is she? Were you guys together long? Maybe it is just a feeling you have right now. In time it will pass. My bf broke up with me and I felt like I didn't know what to do but in time I have just moved on. He too decided to be with someone else. It didn't work for long and now he might be regretting what he did. Maybe you should look at your situation that way. If she loves you then she will realize that. I hope I helped. Take care.
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| Responded: Wow |
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Well, Wow is right. If you're already having one tiny small doubt, then it's probably not going to work out again. I believe that love can always come back and find you, so it's really up to you if you want to take her back. Forgiving and forgetting is always the best for all relationships, whether love or friendship. To me, sounds like she's just using you as a rebound though. Be careful if you really want to do that.
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| Responded: Cat |
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Well if she left u for another guy, that means that she didnt love u the way u deserve from her, so better to forget about her... if she comes back to u , u can take her back, but i dont advice u to do so..
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| Responded: Yoda |
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Sunny , I think that because you were her first boyfriend, you helped her come out of her shell. She must have felt comfortable with you and felt something for you to have gone out with you in the first place. Once the anxiety of the unknown became a past memory, she felt like she could move on with someone who boosted her ego. You take what you have for granted and she took you for granted. She may have just jumped into this new relationship willy nilly or it may have been what she wanted but was too scared to get into it with him to begin with and thus you were there to help out. You could call it 'using you' or you could belive that you were the better one but that she is too blind to see it. Let her have some time with him and dont wait for her. Watch her from a far and see how things go. She may very well realise she has made a mistake. Maybe you could give her a little indication of how you feel about her before you let things go. That way you have boosted her ego a second time and it may have a lasting impression on her. Only fight for her if you really really like her and feel justified in winning her over! Maybe you could send her a little gift or card or flowers just telling her how you feel about her and are sad that she chose to let go what you had go and be with someone else and that you wish that things could have been different but that you dont want to jeopardise what she has with her new boyfriend and you want her to be happy. What do you think guys?? This way she will know that he likes her, that he is respecting her decision but that if she changes his mind, he'd still be there bu that he isnt putting his life on hold for her. sanity
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| Responded: sanity |
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