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It's normal for relationships to cool down, you're right about that.Try setting up some of the same romantic interludes that brought you together in the first place. For instance, re-enact your first date or set up the scene when you first made love, etc. Good luck!
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| Responded: Joda |
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I know where you are coming from. I started dating my bf that I met online a year and 3 months ago. We moved in together in May (moved fairly quick in our relationship) I was pretty sure he was the one for me! He was sooo thoughtful and romantic and appreciated all the little things I did for him to be romantic! We laughed, had fun, went out, we went on weekend getaways, had GREAT sex, did things together. Now it's like pulling teeth to get him to plan anything for us to do. I always have to come up with something, then he gets upset cuz we never do what he wants. He used to do the whole 'candle-lit, hour long foreplay', then take another hour to get to the good stuff, then rock my world for another hour or so...now when/if we do anything it's over within 1 hr--from start to finish! And that's only because I want him to make me orgasm! I've come to a lull in my sex drive. I only want it like 2 x a month. if that. And he's frustrated all the time. I just want the romance back, and maybe I'll want the sex back!
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| Responded: callilillie |
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thank you all so i believe we all can get it back if we just try. some relationships i find we get too comfortable
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| Responded: Moody |
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I think you've all got it wrong. Romace is in the head, not the organs. You have to set the scene in order to make it work. Thik of a sceario that makes you feel! When you do the rest will come.
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| Responded: Sam/Samantha |
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