Where did I make a mistake?? Post a Reply | Views: 230 | Started By: King33 | Replies: 5 I've posted my story on here before, which is rather long, so I'll just shorten it. My girlfriend and I have been broken up now for 2 years and a few months (she ended it)...I eventually couldn't be around her once she started seeing other guys, and eventually we didn't hang out or anything. We'd sometimes write letters. She would like to see me and talk to me and everything, but just as friends, and I just can't do it. I wouldn't want to do it, since she's seeing other people. Anyway, what I'm not sure I may have made a mistake about is that I sent her a letter recently, reiterating to her just how bad things are between us because of this, and I wrote that this very well may be the last letter I ever write to her. I also told her not to call me, and told her that if she does, then I would just assume that she wanted to work things out and get back together, because there have been times in the past when we didn't talk for a while, then suddenly she'd call, so I'd assume she wanted to work things out, but it wasn't the case. So I told her not to call unless that was the reason, then I went on to say that unless she ever feels that way again, we may never even speak to eachother again. I don't know if what I did was a mistake or not, I just don't know. She says she'll never be with me again, but I've always had a weird gut feeling that she would be, but who knows. Do you think I made a mistake by saying to her that we may never talk again?

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dude..that is the same exact thing I told my ex..I told her not to contact me unless its to say I love you and wanna be with you. And you know you are always expecting them to come back to you...what I've learned is sometimes they do, and sometimes they dont, but it feels good when they do.In my opinion you didnt make a mistake, she was aware of your feelings for her im assuming, and its common sense to know that it will hurt someone who likes you, to see you with another person. thats just how 99% of people are. If she is going to try to make you feel guilty by saying that she just wants to be your friend and she shouldnt need to want to be with you or stay single with you, dont buy it..it was her who dumped you so she dug her own grave persay. thats all I can really say. Responded: JEC92485   She won't ever call again, I am telling you this from experience. Just try to move on. I know it's a ***** to move on, but unless you do; you'r going to go nuts. So just try to forget. Good luck, you will need it Responded: BrokenLeg   There is no "moving on." yeah, maybe in other areas of my life, but not relationships. everyone says, "go out and meet new people and have fun," sorry, but f**k that. i don't want some other relationship. the thought of it just gives me this awkward, unsettling feeling inside. I'm pretty much a loner, and always have been, more or less. And I'm not complaining about it or seeking pity because it is a lifestyle that I know I can change if I want, but I don't, because this is just how I am. I'm surprised I was able to have that one relationship at all (yes, it was my first and only one) You've never met anyone more quiet, shy, or more introverted than I am, and it's just how I am. So when people say "move on," well, I don't know what to think of that. This didn't happen yesterday. This happened over 2 years ago. And I guess I'm just going to have to get used to living like this. It used to ease the pain to dream about what could be or what might have been, but now it only hurts. So f**k it all. I appreciate everyones advice, and I'm not saying "f**k it" to you people, I'm just saying it to myself because I'm pissed off. The same anger, hatred, jealousy and sadness I've been living with for way too long. I don't know what else to say. I can feel myself falling apart, a little more each day, and I'm just not the same. Somehow everything seems so far away. Responded: King33   HEy King where are you from, you actaully sound like a friend of mine having the same problem. well dont worry, u will be able to move on sooner or later Responded: Bronxny28   Maybe she just wanted to date around so she will probably be back and not because of what you said Responded: Guest