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used to have on crush on me. Okay, a while back there was a guy that had a really big crush on me. He was in my class (college) and he was too intense and scared me off. He wasn't creepy or aggressive, just that no one ever liked me before and I didn't know what to do/how to feel. I ended up ignoring him even though the whole class knew he liked me. Long story short, he got over me, is not interested in me anymore. Problem is that I have been having a crush on him now for many months and I regret not pursuing a relationship with him before. I just want to get over him and move on with my life. I am 22 and have lots of time for dating, etc. But, every song reminds me about him. I don't *want* to be in love with him because he has told me that he is not interested in me anymore. What can I do to forget him and get over the regret of never knowing what might have been. I am out of school now and need to get a temporary job. I start school again in August, but don't want to spend the next 5 months thinking about him or obsessing over the fact I regret not gong out with him.
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gosh i like a boy and i cant stop it and i also love a boy who loves me to death and would do anything for me
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| Responded: Guest |
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aww, well you must be upset, but don't worry hun, it will be okay.... time heals pain, and you will be feeling better in no time, just try to focus on somebody else, or just on yourself, you need some alone time to see what you really want. once you stop lookin for guys, they'll come to you... it was just meant to be, good luck!
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| Responded: Linda |
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wow i just googled this, except for i was supposed to get tips and not give them. i like to think that when soething good happens, its something i made happen..but u should only worry about the things in your life u can control. the things u cant control are things u shouldnt worry about, becuz if u focus on a guy who really loves you and wont jst get over u u'll be fine..u should stick to your friends and hmm..ur already doing something u want to do probly, plus ur older then me so u can go out and try new things w/o parents lol.
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| Responded: Guest |
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yeaa wow well i just posted. idk if it showed..so here goes again. its weird cuz i came in here looking for tips on how to get over this guy that used to likeme..and i like to think that if something good happens to me, im the one who did it. bhut if something bad happens, its because its for a reason. lol..im not saying thius to depress u, but what i mean is that we're in control of our lives to a certain limit, bhut if somethings really meant to happen it just will. soo the way u felt back then compared to the way u felt now, it isnt something u can control, its just something u feel for yourself. bhut i know everyone gets over these things, it jzt takes time, and u'll be okae. it happened to me, and i think if u stick to ur friends and give the next guy that likes u a chance itll turn out great.plus u dont really need anyone, u should enjoy going out and doing whatever u want!!
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| Responded: Guest |
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This is from a 13 yr old so it might not sound that good but here gos.
Its true you never know how much you loved someone until their gone, but lifes too short to dwell on situations and also things that may never happen. See this as a lesson learned so you can move on with your life and enjoy the time with your friends and family. You shouldn't look for love, love will come to you. I wouldn't worry about it, its his loss.
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| Responded: Charlotte |
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