Anyone have general tips for getting over a crush that... Post a Reply | Views: 8053 | Started By: The Shining | Replies: 22 used to have on crush on me. Okay, a while back there was a guy that had a really big crush on me. He was in my class (college) and he was too intense and scared me off. He wasn't creepy or aggressive, just that no one ever liked me before and I didn't know what to do/how to feel. I ended up ignoring him even though the whole class knew he liked me. Long story short, he got over me, is not interested in me anymore. Problem is that I have been having a crush on him now for many months and I regret not pursuing a relationship with him before. I just want to get over him and move on with my life. I am 22 and have lots of time for dating, etc. But, every song reminds me about him. I don't *want* to be in love with him because he has told me that he is not interested in me anymore. What can I do to forget him and get over the regret of never knowing what might have been. I am out of school now and need to get a temporary job. I start school again in August, but don't want to spend the next 5 months thinking about him or obsessing over the fact I regret not gong out with him.

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Pages:     1   2   3   4   5    Next     Well, there is no one answer to give you. That is life my friend, that is life. This is a growing experience even though you may feel you're already grown up. But to be honest, nobody is ever really grown up, just more experienced in life. You're constantly growing, even when you're 81 or 99, you're still learning and growing.However, you have to look at it in a different way. You constantly look at it as something you'll never get over or are so mad that you passed it up. It doesn't matter, you have to change how you think about it. That's life's little way of telling you that it shouldn't have happened and to awaken your eyes to new things now. You're more alert and more aware of what things are going on. Maybe because of this you'll meet some sweet guy and not even know it and totally fall in love with him. That is what happened to me. It does happen.Never look at it as a loss, it happened for a reason, and maybe that reason was for you to wake up and see what is really going on. Oh well, too bad, it didn't happen. Don't worry, you're still so young, someone will come along. Just make sure you don't close yourself off to risk, because if it wasn't for risk with me, I wouldn't be with my great girl like I am today.Best of luck to you! Responded: EVA01   Don't worry. When you get a job you will be too busy and tired to think about him all the time. Also, keep yourself occupied with the rest of the time going out with friends and have fun. Before you know it, you will be feeling much better. Responded: Tranquiling   The same scenario happened to me just recently, i was also a little sad because I didnot respond to him and as much as i liked him, it made it worse. but, i try to look at the situation in a positive note and say that this happened for me to have appreciation for my next love. and another positive note for the both of us is that your 22 and im 18!!!! so 5 years from now we will be moving foward with different positive events and loves!!!! Responded: Guest   [b] i am having the same problem and although i'm only 15 i feel as though i really love him and its not just a silly crush i have never had a crush like this before. i'm trying to get over him 'cos its the only thing that works. [/b] [b] [/b][b] [/b] Responded: name   Men really do suck there no getting over that there all assholes no matter what and don;t trust them Responded: Guest   Pages:     1   2   3   4   5    Next