My best friend had an affair with my husband Post a Reply | Views: 5206 | Started By: Sally | Replies: 11 I found out about it a year ago.  I just need to vent about it today.  I hate her with a passion.  I work with her and have to see her everyday.  Most days I'm fine.  Today, I wish she would die.  I know it's wrong to dwell on the past, but OMG sometimes I just want revenge.

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Pages:     1   2   3    Next     sweetie, i'm going to be honest with you, and this is what i got to say. leave him and her alone, they are both not worth your time. you don't need a friend like that or a husband who you know cheated on yoou and might do it again! i had a friend who was like that, and a man who i was with for four yrs, and my friend sleeped with him and they both denied it! i left him and broke the friendship with her. i realized that i don't need to be with someone who will not be with me, and seriously don't need a friend who is not a real friend! so, just leave it and move on with your life. let time past and you will find someone who will love and care for you!! for right now, take care of yourself, enjoy your life, and when the time is right the man will come to you. so think about what i said! it helped me and hopefully it will help you. from, natalie~>Aries.bye  Responded: Natalie Aries   I would have to agree with Aries.  Close the door.  If you have children with your husband, it's a bit tough.  The relationship will NEVER be the same.  We liketo think that a married couple can weather a storm like that , however the truth is it's impossible.  Forgiveness is easier, youi just never forget and create sooo much resentment that it comes out in other avenues.  Love yourself and take care of YOU!  not them. Responded: Guest   ugh! girl im going to be blunt with you. you have to realize that that is F-ed up! not only have you lost two people that your supposed to have full confidence in supporting you and full trust in both of them but two people your life has most likely been dedicated to. With a husband and a best friend you've most likely supported them through everything they have been through. Revenge is something you shouldnt seek because karma will bite both of them im the ass, look.. all you have to do is move on without them and dont let any of them get the pleasure of seeing what your going through. Responded: Leah Marie   life goes on !!! Responded: allie c.   well i'm here to say that it has happened to me i mean a woman that i called my friend slept with my boyfriend that we were on the way to getting married and she slept with him and gotten pregant by him and had the baby but on the bad side was that i was pregant and i lost my baby but she had here baby i guess over the years that i learn how to forgive my ex boyfriend and my ex freind but it took years and another baby for me to move on and i did it's your inner you that just have to let go my dad cheated on my mother years ago but you have to remember to you really love your husband uncondiontional you love through thick and thin no matter what when you take those vowels at the alter that's something really serious i think my mother and dad had been married now for 21yrs when you think about it you say for rich or poor through the good and the badd till death and just kick the exfriends ass pray to god that you don't kill the B****! and forgive and move on with your life and your husband for happy time wish you the best............ Responded: maple   Pages:     1   2   3    Next