How do you Ask for Kissing? help, please.. Post a Reply | Views: 4025 | Started By: a nice girl | Replies: 6 I need some help here...I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, he is the the first guy i've ever been with (we both are in out twenties).  I love him. He loves me (i know that). We really love each other, but.... it is difficult for him to express his affection for me.  Almost all the time, i am the one who starts the kissing.  I would like him to take the initiative more often (when he does it's great), to be the giver more than the receiver. I like passionate kisses, i'm dying for him to kiss my neck...  i tried to kiss his neck casually but it tickles him too much (i think he doesn't like it), i told him "i don't feel tickles in my neck", but he woudn't get the hint. please help, help! how can i tell him to do this without sounding demanding or pushy?

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Pages:     1   2    Next     My honest opinion? I think you need to just TELL him what to do. A kiss asked and received is just as valuable as a kiss spontaneously given... IF YOU LET IT BE THAT WAY. Here's what I want to ask you. What do you truly NEED? Do you need his initiative? his passion? to be kissed? to be aroused? figure that out. THEN you have to be willing to ask for your needs to be filled and NOT worry about HOW they are being filled. By that I mean if you your need is for passion and intimacy, then the fact that you have to ask for it, even though he complies willingly, is irrelevent. You're need is being filled. I don't think you are pushy to tell him, for example, "kiss me here really slow I like that a lot..." I don't think you're pushy at all... you deserve to have your needs met, and you deserve to have a passionate, intimate, emotionally available lover. Don't be afraid to ask for what you deserve! Good Luck! Brian Responded: Brian   I think you need to find a man who is unafraid of commitment and who is more passionate. You will regret not finding another man twenty years from now. Responded: Dave   If he's worth it, teach him. Many years ago I had a sweetie that didn't really know how to kiss. I did exactly what bpdou said and told her how I liked it. She did, and turned out she liked it that way too.... It was a lot of fun....we had to "practice" a lot!!!!! Responded: Guest   Someone before me said it, you just going to have to tell him to do it. I'm sure if you do that the right way that he'll come around, my girl and me had a simular situation with groping and all it takes is a conversation. Responded: Aleksander   They are all right!!!!! You NEED to tell him. That is the only way that he is going to know. If you feel embarrased or uncomfortable, you shouldn't be with this man. If you can't talk to him. I know it is a little awkward, but if you have all the good things a relationship should have, you will be able to laugh about how uncomfortable it is. But still find the seriousness in how it is a problem. It can only work out for the better. Love isn't perfect like on the movies, it is supposed to have its glitches. DONT BE AFRAID TO TELL HIM WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE RECIEVED IN THE FIRST PLACE. Responded: Guest   Pages:     1   2    Next