Guys won't approach me! Post a Reply | Views: 417 | Started By: jujubeenez | Replies: 4 I am a sophmore in college, lots of people in the past have told me that they think I'm pretty and they think I have a great personality but guys never approach me. Can anybody tell me what the problem is? I am beginning to think that I don't dress slutty enough. Could that be the problem? I have been hit on before at concerts and that sort of thing, but not one guy has ever attempted to really get to know me. Anybody else have this problem?

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Hey, do you smile when you talk to guys?  smiling is a killer weapon to draw a person's attention, and you should also lean toward the person and you can grab his arm or touch his shoulder when talking to the guy.  and the guy will feel close to you and will ask you out.  try wearing perfumes that are expensive don't use those body sprays.  uhm...what else, dressing slutty might help, but if you want a real man, you don't need to do that. just try to smile a lot and look at the person in the eyes and make eye contacts.  just be clingy, some guys like that from girls.  I surely do. Responded: Shawn   Could be some of the guys are intimidated by your good looks. Maybe they're shy and afraid to approach you. There could be any number of reasons they don't approach. Have you ever thought about approaching one of them? I know I'd be flattered if a beauty  would come up to me. Can't really say why they don't approach.Tell us a little more, and maybe we can help more. Good luck!!!!!!! Responded: Guest   Maybe you're right. I do smile alot because I think everything is funny. But I'm not very "touchy feely"  because I am pretty shy, which is a bummer in these situations. Thanks for the advice guys... Responded: Jujubeenez   I have the same problem. A lot of people have told me that I'm pretty/beautiful/whatever but in high school it seemed like none of the guys ever went for me or wanted to hang out with me. I am a bit shy too sometimes but I open up easily once I get to know someone. Now that I think of it, it's strange how some days when I decide not to wear makeup, nice clothes or cute hair, then a guy would come up to me. So basically when I feel really good about myself, no one approaches me, and when I feel ugly, guys approach me. It's so confusing and annoying Responded: Stephanie