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Sweetie, I'm sorry you feel this way. You truly have no reason to feel down. I can see where you coming from and understand your feelings, but no, you shouldn't feel as nobody liking you only beacuse of the situation with this girl. Everyone in some point is ignored or rejected somehow, but remember there is the right person waiting for all of us.Nothing is wrong with you, I'm sure one day you will find someone that will love you and you guys will be happy. Good luck, cheer up
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| Responded: anothrcleverperson |
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Im sorry to hear you are feeling like this - but dont beat yourself up about it, it's not your fault.Everybody has to face rejection and its very hard. but it dont mean you are a loser! One day you will find the girl for you!
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| Responded: Eve |
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I don't think this is that embarrassing..probably the girl felt shy too, because there's still the little awkward feeling about talking to strangers. But don't ever give up on taking chances. You made a first step, take this as practice..think about what else you could've said, the next time you'll be in similar situation you'll know how you could say something better..and then who knows. You tried, and that's what's important, you'll try again, and you'll succeed.
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| Responded: Candle |
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I'm 17 and I've never asked a guy out. And I've only been asked out once. All the guys I've ever known have thought that I'm ugly and a loser, except the one who asked me out. There's nothing wrong with you. And you will get a girlfriend. You sound like a really good guy.
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| Responded: Sandy |
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well.. I'm just going to be honest with you.. here's the line that I knew you "messed up"..."she obviously didn't want to talk to me" obvious to who?? you just ASSUMED that she didn't want to talk. when I read your post... the girl seemed obviously interested. if she didn't want to talk, she would have simply said that yes she was going to the mall and would have said nothing else. but this girl was a little interested.. even if it was a simple conversation. I know she was interested because she asked an open ended question, and you grew her interest even more when you made her laugh. you were doing great until you called your friend..but even then, she was still interested, because not only did she listen to your conversation, but she commited on it as well. she is perhaps shy, and didn't know what to say. that's why when she found out that you worked at the mall, she immedately asked another question. the problem is that you totally misinterpeted her, and you already thought no,she doesn't want to talk to me, before you even gave her a chance. confidence is the key here. hey, if you are a great looking guy, with an ability to make the girls laugh, use it to your advantage. change the way you think about the situation, beacuse if you do see her again, I bet she wouldn't mind talking to you. so don't beat yourself up about it.
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