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Views: 378 | Started By: Rainygirl | Replies: 6
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I've gotten close with Andy who's well known to be the campus playboy. I didnt like him at first and he's been trying 2 hit on me since earlier this year and I dont know why i did it, but finally I agreed to give him my number, that was about a week ago (after so long!). He's invited me to discos and I've turned him down twice, I told him that he doesn't know me well enough and I dont want to get hurt or to be played, and I told him he'll have to consider that carefully before getting involved with me and I need a guy I can trust, not someone who'll play me. He asked me about my past relationships and my feelings and I told him that I've never been in a real relationship b4 and how I got so hurt once and how scared I am to try it out. I also told him that he'll have to go very slow and he'll have to be patient with me. He got to know that I'm the serious type who's really shy. After I told him that, I didn't expect him to continue pursuing me, but instead he told me 'I can be that guy', and he's been texting me every single day, telling me how much he's been thinking about me and how he can't get me off his head, how beautiful I am and telling me how much he wants to get to know me even more now. It just seems too good to be true, and I'm actually starting to fall for him and I can't help it. Is there a chance for us? I really don't want to get hurt....I know he's into me mainly because of my looks (he's kinda hot as well though), and we havent really gone out yet... but could he be that heartless to use me after asking me to pour my feelings to him? Or maybe he finally wants to get serious with a girl?Please advice, as I really don't know what I'll be expecting from all this...
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| Maybe he sees you as a challenge.You're playing hard to get. (which is good)Some ppl like that. Possibly with all the text mesaages and sweet words, he's trying to get you to see a different side to him. Not the player side.Be cautious if he is a player.Don't show your vulnerable or hurt side from the past side to soon.Let your feelings come out in time.If you feel that he's only into you for your looks and if that's true, then you're (sort of ) with him for the wrong reasons.
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| Responded: Starwatcher |
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he could really be into you, but you should know that with "playboys" they will say and do anything they have to get what they want. theres a good chance he just sees you as a challenge and thats why he giving you so much attention, but theres a chance he really wants to be with you and really likes you, but theres only one way to find out, and thats making him wait, if he sticks it out then he really likes you if he gives up after awhile then you know he only wanted one thing.
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| Responded: maybe |
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I think you should give him a chance. There is always one person out there who can change the playboy's! My husband was one till I can along and now we are happily married.. give him a shot but don't get too involved until you are sure he isn't just playing you.. be friends, hang out but don't move to fast.
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| Responded: konzter |
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I found out through a mutual friend that he's into another girl as well and she's actually a close frend of his, the weird thing is he used to try and hit on me and she'd be there with him.I've a bad feeling about this...I think it's just a setup. I just texted him and told him that 'he's got the wrong idea about me and he can find wat he's looking for somewhere else'. He didnt reply and I don't need him too. Hmph... I jus wonder how he'll be reacting to this.Can't believe I nearly fell into a perverted liar's trap.It just hurts....especially after I've been hurt so many times b4 this...
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| Responded: rainygirl |
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Sorry about that.. maybe he was just using you to make this other girl jealous. You totally did the right thing.. move on and forget him. There are better men out there.
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| Responded: konzter |
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