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Views: 156 | Started By: forevprinces | Replies: 2
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well my strange story is this 3 years ago i called a wrong number and met a guy on the phone! he only lived 5 min away from my house. we talked every single day like 10 x i liked him beyond belief and his feelings were the same. well i wouldnt meet him for the fact i was afraid he wouldnt like me because i was heavy and i loved the person on the phone we even said it we slept every night on the phone for 3years i liked to listn to him breathe im not a weirdo so of course i lye every reason why i wont meet him im sick.im scared,icant tell u, i did send him a couple head shots all cut out he found strange but he did have an idea,he asked if it was my weight oh no i said iweighj 119 so to make a long story short i lost 90 pounds and now guys notice me everywere i feel like i was trapped with a pretty face and fat body and now im free. so we met by the way im 24 he is29 we finally met hes met my family and i told him the truth why it took me so long to meet. and he has been so distance he says im overbearing,i justb want to spend time with him does he hate me? ive told him how i felt, he seems so un intrested now why? what do i do now we said when we met we would be dating we had something a weird connectrion is it gone for him? he said we need to keep our space and just hang out as friends i dont want to be his friend i like him to much i know this is long but its hard to tell people this confusing story
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I'm surprised to hear that he met your family. It sounds like things progressed too fast. I believe that even though relationships on the phone and/or interned may SEEM real, they are not real until you meet this individual in person, and find out what they are really like. It's easy to be uninhibited when you don't look someone in the eye and don't see their body language. Sometimes people even act completely different than their usual selves on the internet/ phone. So, I'm not surprised that this guy you met after communicating on the phone backed off. You are just getting to know each other, no matter how many conversations you've had on the phone. I would follow his suggestion to be friends at first. It's common sense. Furthermore, nothing is a bigger turn-off for men than a woman who wants to be "joined at the hip" with them (spend too much time together too fast). Take it easy. Get to know him as a friend, and see how things progress. Most importantly, don't get your family or friends involved, and don't put all your eggs in one basket at this point. Feel free to date other men.
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| Responded: Athena1980 |
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wow, forevprinces, ur story has so many parallels to the situation going on in my life at this moment. just to give u a little history on me, i have been talkin to mike on the phone for the past 3 months (not exactly 3 years, but it may as well have been that long, i felt that close to him.) we too slept with each other on the phone every night, we just couldnt get ourselves to hang up. i postponed meeting him aswell, i was deathly terrified that he wouldnt like what i looked like. he told me he loved me, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and that looks did not matter. its foolish of us to believe that u can be in love with someone you've never met. well 4 days ago, i got up the courage to meet him, it was strange, very awkward, we made out for a bit, and when i left (the next morning) i thought everything was going to be ok.he called me that night, and immediately i noticed that things had changed, he seemed distant, unresponsive, he said he just wanted to be friends. that was hurtful, cuz i too want soo much more than that so do u know what i'm going to do? i'm going to be his friend, i'm gonna give him space and i will see if in time, this relationship of ours will progress to be more than friends. we had a special connection and i refuse to believe that it can just diappear like that.Unfortunately no one can MAKE someone fall in love with them. this is why we must both keep in mind that there is a possibility that these are not the guys we are going to spend our lives with. i love mike sooo much, i know i can make him so happy, but there's no point in me not looking for love elsewhere. take care girl, everything will go well. -maiyaps. congrats on losing so much weight, how long did it take u? i would greatly appreciate any tips. thanks
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