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omg, me and my bloke have been together for 4 years this december and we're not engaged. We have talked about it but are waiting til we are both fully stable in our lifestyles so we can enjoy the most out of life. A year and a half I would say is far too early to consider marriage. This is someone you'll have to live with every day, day in and day out/. You need to live with someone for a good while in my opinion before you can determine whether you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You could hate them after spending your whole time with them!
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| Responded: Jules |
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For the girl dating for 1.5 years--give it time, that really isn't long. You have to consider that maybe he is ready but he needs time to make sure he had enough money for the ring, house, to support you. He also might not be considering it yet, but in the future (maybe years from now), he sees you being together. Don't pressure him. If you feel like he isn't going to do it, then confront him. Ask him if he sees you guys getting married. This is the best advice I can give you.
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| Responded: Kris |
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In this day and age, a year and a half of being together isn't a long time. People date/live together for years before getting married. I'm in my late 20's and have been with my sweetie for almost 2 years and I would love to get married and start a family, but I'm still not ready yet. Forever is a long time and just because you love someone doesn't mean it's time to march down the aisle. The best thing you can do is live your lives and be happy. Take everyday as a blessing and know that if he didn't love you or care about you--you wouldn't be in the picture. A guy like that isn't going to keep you around for kicks ESPECIALLY since he knows what your intentions for the relationship are. Just relax. Take a deep breath and let things flow. You'll be surprised at what can happen :-) Good Luck!
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| Responded: Ally |
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I think that this guy is a jerk! What are you supposed to do...audition for the part of the bride? If you wait and do what he wants maybe you will be lucky enough to get the prize - a ring - please !
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| Responded: Guest |
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A year and half is way too early to expect a guy to propose in my opinion. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and am hoping that he will propose soon, since we have talked about marriage a lot. Marriage should not be taken lightly..it is a huge committment and is something that I only plan on doing once, so we are taking our time and doing it right!
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