Relationship advice needed. Post a Reply | Views: 559 | Started By: Guest | Replies: 3 Hello,I just came across this site and I am also seeking some advice.I have a great boyfriend and I am in love, we are together just over a year.I worry that I may be coming across as needy, because after we are together for a wkend, I get very lonely going back to my own house, and I tend to ring him every day.The fact that he doesn't ring me everyday, make me want to see him even more.I much prefer being around him. We are living about half an hours drive away from each other. At this stage of the relationship I would have thought that we would be spending more time with each other, like more more days in the week.I don't see why we should be spending some days apart when we live closeby.I am hoping that he will ask me to marry him soon, i feel that we have a better relationship than friends of mine who are already engaged.I want him to ask me to marry him, soon, but I don't know how to bring the topic up in conversation.He did ask me at the start of the relationship if I wanted marriage and kids in the future with someone and I said of course.We are going away for a nice wkend and we will have plenty opportunity to discuss things, but I don't know how to bring it up and he is a lot less talkative than I am...sometimes he doesn't talk all that much over dinner. Can anybody give me advice?

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Well, you can just open the subject to him than try to keep it!... After all, it's better if he knows what you want so that he'll not be harden up!...But try not to be so excited about telling it! Try not to look as if you're really wanting it!... Just put the subject as if it's just nothing... then maybe, he'll give it a thought... Responded: Guest   What your going through sounds almost sorry to say *typical* honestly the only way to bring it up would be in a way that you feel comfortable addressing it. Id start with maybe a 'honey, we've been seeing each other for quite awhile now, and i feel as though im acting a bit needy since i have been calling you everday for the past -enter days, weeks, etc- but its jsut bcuz i love you and want to spend so much more time with you' or whatever you feel you could say..just be honest thats all and everything will work out in the end. Responded: random person   I think that it's very hard for someone else to be able to know what he's thinking. you have to ask yourself: what is my gut feeling telling me? ask yourself these questions and write down what's the first answer you have flash before you, that's usually the right answer. 1. do you feel that he cherishes you? 2. do you feel that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you? 3. do you feel that he really cares about you? 4. do you feel that you enjoy being with him? 5. do you think he enjoys spending time with you? 6. do you want to marry him because you think you can't find someone better? 7. do you really want to spend the rest of your life with him? i think if you can honestly answer those questions then you will know what to do next Responded: Guest